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I devoured the memoir Inheritance in two days. When Dani Shapiro casually takes a genetic ancestry test, she is shocked to discover that her beloved late father was not, in fact, her biological dad. (This is not a spoiler, as it happens on page one.) The rest of the book follows her journey as she unravels her family secrets. Last weekend, I was running late for a dinner reservation while closing in on the end of the book. “We need to go soon,” my boyfriend said. “I AM READING THE LAST THREE PAGES!” I replied. So, he read them aloud while I quickly got ready. Anyway, read this book. — Caroline
We gave this windbreaker to our daughter for a Christmas gift, but I steal it when she’s at school for running because I love it so much. (It’s my money! And she doesn’t even appreciate how retro it is!) The hem hits at the perfect spot, and it’s lightweight and breathable. — Jenny
I’ve been making Diane Kochilas’s famous Pasta with Yogurt and Caramelized Onions ever since Amanda Hesser wrote about it in the New York Times almost two decades ago. Even though the recipe calls for a mere five ingredients, I usually only make it for dinner guests because it tastes so special and different. I mean that literally — often the lucky, unsuspecting eaters will take a bite and say something like, “I’ve never eaten anything like this before! What is this?! It’s hard to even identify what’s happening here!” Needless to say, what’s happening here — the combination of tangy yogurt, jammy onions, and bright salty Pecorino — is stunning. (P.S. I make twice as many onions as it calls for and use sheep’s milk yogurt.) — Jenny
The best game ever: Legs. We played this nonstop over the holidays. Literally, all you do is pick a letter — say it’s “M” — set a timer for two minutes, then every player (or team of players) names everything that starts with M that has legs: martian, mother, mountaineer, missionary, etc. It can be objects, too — whatever has legs! Then you compare lists at the end, and cross off any item that other teams had. Whoever winds up with the most wins. It’s my all-time favorite game. For the rest of the week, you’ll be thinking of “m” things you forgot. It’s so addictive that my cousins and I are still playing it over text. —Kelsey
P.S. More fun things, including how to be a good listener.
(Pasta photo by James Ransom for Food52.)
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Sasha L
February 9, 2019 11:10 pm
Imagine my delight at my luck when I walked into the local library yesterday and Inheritance was sitting on the shelf!! I hadn’t even bothered to get on the holds list because I just knew the wait would be forever lol. Started this morning and just finished at 9 pm. To say it was hard to put down is a bit of an understatement. All day long I kept giving out updates to my husband, until the point he was practically shouting “well, what has she found out now? I’m dying over here!” I’m afraid I just couldn’t help reading so fast, but I was astonished and moved over and over again by the beauty and grief and depth of soul in her words. Highly worth my whole Saturday!
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Ali
February 6, 2019 9:13 am
My friends from Syria make spaghetti with yoghurt, garlic, and just a little lemon juice, olive oil and salt. DELICIOUS and super easy. I’m going to try this version asap.
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Amanda
January 25, 2019 3:36 pm
I fondly remember family gatherings as a kid involving the adults playing games and laughing so much that even us kids would want to join in. Now that I’m a mom, I’m trying to create rituals and have regular family dinners to let my kids see their relatives in the same fun-loving way. Often times my mom suggests playing a game, but usually I’m so worn out that I don’t have the mental capacity for figuring out rules or paying attention to anything even a little complicated (my 2.5-year-old and 4-month-old aren’t the best sleepers;). “Legs” seems like the perfect way to get back into playing something silly at the dinner table – thanks so much! My husband and I started thinking of “a” words when I was telling him about it, and we keep randomly coming up with ones days later, and he’s not much of a game kind of guy! I’m curious though… can you use proper nouns?! Thinking the lists could get crazy long if people’s names are allowed? Love to hear anyone’s “house rules” for when we introduce it to my self-proclaimed word-nerd family!
Also, we are making that pasta for family dinner tonight; can’t wait to try it! Our grocery stores didn’t have fresh pasta though, so my toddler is going to help me make some. Wish us luck! :)
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Kelsey Miller
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Reply to Amanda
January 29, 2019 10:26 am
Amanda, I love this! It is a PERFECT dinner-table game. In terms of “house rules,” no proper nouns. So, “Elizabeth” is a no-go, but “Elizabethan” is good. Have fun!
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Danielle
January 25, 2019 2:34 pm
I love this documentary so much! I recommend it to everyone!
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January 25, 2019 2:33 pm
Another game to add to the list.. waiting at the restaurant for food to arrive and keeping the boys screen free and sane is sometimes a difficult and we usually play the ABC game, 20 questions and have now added Heads Up to the list.. Will try Leg next time we’re out.
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Carol
January 25, 2019 1:04 pm
The “legs” game sounds great..Can you purchase it? Have a great weekend!
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Erin
Reply to Carol
January 28, 2019 5:49 pm
Scattergories is a broader version of the same concept that can be purchased as a board game.
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Kelsey Miller
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Reply to Carol
January 29, 2019 10:28 am
I don’t think there’s a board-game version —but no need! All you need is a piece of paper for every player (or team of players). Then pick a letter, set a timer, and go!
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Cari
January 24, 2019 9:22 pm
Last night my teenage daughter was feeling down and disappointed by some plans that had fallen through, and I suggested playing a fast game of (new to us) ‘Legs’, instead of her lying face down on my bed whimpering.
And it worked! In two minutes she couldn’t stop giggling. Thanks, COJ!
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Joanna Goddard
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Reply to Cari
January 24, 2019 9:57 pm
This makes me happy, what a sweet moment :)
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Kelsey Miller
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Reply to Cari
January 29, 2019 10:31 am
That’s so sweet!
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d
January 24, 2019 2:47 pm
LOOK AT THIS PICTURE in relation to the board game picture! ha. what goes around comes back around.
https://goop.com/style/decorating-design/the-5-essential-furniture-pieces-youll-always-use/?ref=newsletter
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Sasha L
Reply to d
January 24, 2019 3:02 pm
That’s so funny!
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Diana McNeill
January 24, 2019 2:39 pm
Caroline–I bought the book yesterday and am half way done. It’s gripping! Thanks for the recommendation!
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Danielle
January 24, 2019 2:19 pm
I was walking to work today thinking about dinner later and I remembered there being an onion yogurt pasta dish I’d seen somewhere and wanted to make. Opened COJ and there it was!
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Mary
January 24, 2019 10:44 am
Saw Dani Shapiro at a book reading last night in Brookline, MA. If you have a chance to see her in your city – please do it! She is as articulate as you’d imagine and I can’t wait to read Inheritance!
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MM
January 24, 2019 10:39 am
My nine year still chooses Sorry every time…
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January 24, 2019 10:21 am
He’s a keeper, Caroline! (And I added this book to my list IMMEDIATELY. Right up my alley.) And I’ve been wanting to make that darn pasta since Jenny posted the process on her Insta stories. Looks insanely good. (Also right up my alley. Might even make it for lunch today…)
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January 24, 2019 9:52 am
It’s a tough call, but I think “Four Fun Things” is my favorite part of COJ. Keep it coming!
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Mallory
January 24, 2019 9:49 am
Cup of Jo should have a tag or page dedicated to book recommendations. I almost exclusively choose books based on your recommendations (and of course the awesome commenters) but I do not have a convenient way to locate those.
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Andrea
Reply to Mallory
January 24, 2019 10:23 am
yes please!
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Rachel
Reply to Mallory
January 24, 2019 10:28 am
YES! Totally agree. I typically love COJ book recommendations- but sometimes it’s difficult to find previous posts that include books (like 4 fun things) if the word “book” isn’t in the title of the post.
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Joanna Goddard
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Reply to Rachel
January 24, 2019 10:54 am
this is a great idea! we will get this together!
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Julie
Reply to Mallory
January 24, 2019 10:52 am
This would be fantastic! I return often to book posts, and posts where readers share their favorite passages. My absolute favorite content on this site.
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gfy
Reply to Mallory
January 24, 2019 1:03 pm
Ditto PODCASTS – especially great if you’d comb the comments and add those rec’s too perhaps with an asterisk or something to designate “from the comments” so no one holds you accountable. But usually comment suggestions are as golden as your official rec’s!
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Melissa
January 24, 2019 9:28 am
The pasta dish sounds amazing, but a question about Jenny’s note – the recipe calls for 6 cups of onions. Does Jenny really use 12 cups!?
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Hilary A Tschoepe
January 24, 2019 9:09 am
To the person responsible for posting the sweet image of the midcentury family playing a game together- thank you. Refreshing to see a nostalgic pic used in an unironic way! And as a bonus, every stick of furniture is swoon-worthy, right down to the HAY look-alike pillows.
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Stephanie
Reply to Hilary A Tschoepe
January 24, 2019 11:55 am
Agreed, do you think that game pictured is Parcheesi?
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Savannah
Reply to Hilary A Tschoepe
January 24, 2019 4:13 pm
Stephanie it’s Sorry! I know this because, at 30, this is still my favorite game.
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Lee
January 24, 2019 9:06 am
My dad and I always played a version of Legs when I was a kid. It is the best car game!
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Caroline, swoon!! After reading your many insightful posts on CoJ about reading and writing, it sounds like you’ve got yourself a rare edition ;)
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January 24, 2019 7:32 am
I’m planning to listen to Inheritance on audio! I’ve heard such great things about Dani Shapiro in general and this book in particular!
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Samantha
January 23, 2019 10:42 pm
Jenny – when I was growing up, every Thursday my (Polish) mother would make “No Yolks” egg noodles, butter them while they were still hot, and then serve them piping hot with cottage cheese on top. My dad would get caramelized onions on his, us kids (6 of us! Born in 9.5 years! My mother is a saint!) with fruit co*cktail on top.
I always looked forward to Thursday night dinner, but anytime a friend would come over they would think it was the strangest dinner ever. As each one of us kids got older, we gradually would switch from requesting the fruit co*cktail to the asking for the caramelized onions like dad!
The best (cheap and easy) comfort food ever! Thanks for the memory – can’t wait to share the (much more sophisticated) recipe you shared with my mom during our standard 9 am call tomorrow!
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Sasha L
Reply to Samantha
January 24, 2019 3:08 pm
I’m not trying to yuck your yum, but wouldn’t a post about the wackiest/weirdest, but also delicious, foods you ate growing up be so super fun?
My mom served buttermilk pancakes, with brown gravy. The kind from the packet. Blech, right? But we all loved it! I remember it tasting so good.
My brothers and dad all ate chocolate cake exclusively in a glass of milk. Yuck. But they loved it.
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Emily
Reply to Samantha
January 25, 2019 11:36 am
I love Sasha’s idea! Hope you will consider doing Cup of Jo. Sometimes stuff that seems weird can be oh so good when you try it. This would be great to read all the comments!
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Kristin
January 23, 2019 10:17 pm
I volunteered in a friend’s gifted classroom for ten years, and she played a version of that game with the kids to help encourage them to be more creative and to think beyond the obvious. They would get so frustrated when they had to cross off most of their lists, but you definitely see them trying to be more creative the next time they played it.
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Laura
Reply to Kristin
January 26, 2019 8:02 am
Oh, I bet that could be really useful in a foreign language class too for building a robust vocabulary.
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Matty
January 23, 2019 10:16 pm
That pasta is a blast from the past! Thanks for digging this winner out of the recipe archives in my head and into vogue again :)
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Kate Peaslee
January 23, 2019 10:09 pm
I just searched for “Legs” on Amazon Prime before re-reading this …
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Theresa
Reply to Kate Peaslee
January 24, 2019 6:43 am
Haha! I was wondering where the link was for a second…!!
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Marianne
January 23, 2019 8:21 pm
Thanks for the book recommendation! I have the hardest time finding new books to read, so I always like posts with recs. Definitely planning to check it out!
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Kaitlin
January 23, 2019 8:17 pm
I feel like I may have mentioned this before, but hear me out: Inheritance reminds me a LOT of one of my favourite documentaries, by Sarah Polley, called Stories We Tell, that is about Sarah discovering the father she knew is not actually her biological father and that she was the offspring of an affair her mother had had. Much like Inheritance, it’s about how we craft a narrative about ourselves, what we know to be true, and what, at the end of the day, actually matters.
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Danielle
Reply to Kaitlin
January 25, 2019 2:28 pm
I love this documentary so much! I recommend it to everyone!
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Mia
January 23, 2019 6:48 pm
Commenting from Germany, where apparently the windbreaker is no longer available on the Nike website! I tried to reverse search the image to no avail – Google’s best guess is ‘board shorts’ (lol). What’s the product name?? Thanks!
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Joanna Goddard
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Reply to Mia
January 23, 2019 9:25 pm
oh! it’s the Women’s Woven Jacket by Nike Sportswear. here’s another link, if this one works! https://amzn.to/2T5sqJj
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Kate
January 23, 2019 6:41 pm
Back in the 80s, my parents bought matching black and red Nike windbreakers that looked exactly like the one featured. They would wear them on walks around the neighborhood, and it was just as adorably nerdy as you might expect. I’m still sad that there was never a picture capturing the moment. They still like to coordinate outfits, 45 years of marriage later, but much to my dismay, they donated the windbreakers (which I discovered when I went home to steal one!)
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Sarah
January 23, 2019 5:41 pm
I’ve been making that yogurt and carmelized onion pasta dish since it appeared on CoJ a few years back. ;) It’s such an easy yet complex dish to have in the dinner rotation!
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Meg
January 23, 2019 5:39 pm
Caroline. Marry him. Or you know, just keep him around a really long time.
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Sarah
Reply to Meg
January 23, 2019 5:59 pm
This! So much this! A
And send me his brother or carbon copy. What a selfless and kind act.
(reminds self, add ‘reader’ to list of requirements for partner)
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Naseem
Reply to Meg
January 23, 2019 8:42 pm
YES. my boyfriend reads to me and it’s the best thing ever.
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Nicole
Reply to Meg
January 23, 2019 10:49 pm
One of my best friends had a boyfriend that read to her and he was super controlling and abusive.
Not trying to be negative but maybe realistic? Someone isn’t a keeper just because they read to you (although that is nice). I realize people will say, “Well, obviously she’s vetted him and there’s more to it…” but on this blog there isn’t more about him. CofJ seems like a progressive enough space to where I’m hoping to leave this without much of a fuss.
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Katie
January 23, 2019 5:17 pm
LITERALLY the best ‘Legs’ like game is called “Listography: The Game: May the Best List Win!”. You can get it on Amazon, but I stumbled on it in a small bookstore and bought it on a whim.
You create lists (like scattergories or Legs) but they vary in terms of the goal: Sometimes you want to match everyone, sometimes no one, sometimes only one other person. It’s addictive.
I converted even my most board game-hating friends into playing for hours in a cabin up in the Cascades.
Do yourself a favor. Buy it.
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Sarah M
Reply to Katie
January 24, 2019 4:06 pm
Yes!! We love Listography and have converted a bunch of our friends too, such a great recommendation :)
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Mandy
January 23, 2019 5:16 pm
Fun mid week pick me up!!
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A
January 23, 2019 5:16 pm
One of our go-to recipes is the pasta with yogurt and carmalized onions. I like to add in chunks of roasted butternut squash for extra sweetness and texture :)
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January 23, 2019 4:38 pm
I wanna play legs the next time I’m on a roadtrip!! So fun!
Allie
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Joanna Goddard
Admin
Reply to Allison Hackett
January 23, 2019 4:41 pm
that was my thought exactly! :)
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LR
January 23, 2019 4:33 pm
Just here to say Caroline’s bf sounds like a keeper.
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BreAnne Neuman
Reply to LR
January 23, 2019 4:54 pm
I second that!
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jade lees
Reply to LR
January 23, 2019 4:57 pm
That was my take away too.
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Liz
January 23, 2019 4:30 pm
Four Fun Things is one of my favorite COJ standards & this one was no exception–always love your recommendations!
Funny sidenote though: I couldn’t figure out why that last photo was making me irrationally irritated…and then I realized what board game is being played. “Sorry!” *shudders* So. Many. Childhood. Fights. I can see–clear as day–the smirk on my adolescent cousin’s face as she passive-aggressively sneered the dreaded words: “So-orry!” *cries* ;)
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Sasha L
Reply to Liz
January 24, 2019 10:04 am
Oh gosh, agreed. Sorry is a terrible game.
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